Friends do not always agree – and that is okay! What matters is how we disagree. We can disagree with respect.
Helping words and hurting words
| Helping words 😊 | Hurting words 😢 |
|---|---|
| “Please.” “Thank you.” “Sorry.” | “You’re stupid.” |
| “Can we take turns?” | “Go away!” |
| “I feel upset when …” | “I hate you!” |
| “Let’s work it out.” | calling people names |
Keep hands and feet to yourself
We never hit, kick, push or bite, even when we are angry. Walk away, take deep breaths, and talk when you are calm.
Win-win solutions
A win-win solution makes everyone happy. Two children want the same ball? Take turns, play together, or set a timer.
Personal space
Everyone has a personal space bubble – about an arm’s length around them. Do not stand too close, and ask before you hug.
Respectful behaviour
- Use a calm, quiet voice.
- Let others share their ideas. Do not interrupt.
- Respect shared places: the classroom, the park, the bus, the beach. Keep them clean and do not damage them.
TRY ITRespect
Choose a game.
Let’s practise
Try each one. Then tap Show answer to check.
1. Give two helping words or phrases.
Show answer
For example please, thank you, sorry, “Can we take turns?”
2. What should you do instead of hitting when you are angry?
Show answer
Walk away, breathe deeply, and talk when calm; tell a grown-up.
3. What is a win-win solution?
Show answer
A way to solve a problem so everyone is happy.
4. What is personal space?
Show answer
The bubble of space around a person, about an arm’s length.
5. How can you respect a shared place like the park?
Show answer
Keep it clean, do not damage things, share the swings.
Quick check
1. Is “I feel upset when …” a helping or hurting phrase?
Show answer
Helping.
2. Should you interrupt when someone is speaking?
Show answer
No. Wait your turn.
3. What voice should we use when we disagree?
Show answer
A calm voice.
Words to know
Say these words with a grown-up. Can you use each one in a sentence?
respect · disagree · helping words · hurting words · win-win · personal space · calm
Try it at home
- Make a family list of helping words and stick it on the fridge.
- When you disagree with a brother, sister or friend, try a win-win solution.
- Practise your “calm down” breathing: smell the flower, blow out the candle.
For parents and teachers
After this lesson, your child should be able to:
- describe respectful ways to handle disagreements
- choose helping words, not hurting words
- suggest win-win solutions
- respect personal space and shared public places
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